In love with a girl who has a boyfriend

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Ok, I have this friend who has been dating this guy for about 2-3 months and about a month ago I finally realized that I really like her. She is year older than me and is a softmore. I have let her know I like her about two weeks ago and she says she likes me too but she wont break up with him to come with me. I am just like dying every time I see her, especially with him. I need to know what she is really feeling and what I should do now because I have no idea. I hope you can help me and SOON. Advice
Your best bet is to remain good friends with her and be there for her whenever she needs to talk. Don't pressure her with romance since she said she wants to stay with her boyfriend. If she gets tired of her boyfriend, you will be there ready for her. Realistically this is about all you can and should do.

Good luck!

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