She broke off the marriage

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Hi George,

I am from india and we don't have a culture where we date lotsa girls or guys. I m 27, i had a friend, whom i met on net.. we became good friendz and then, she proposed me for marriage. I agreed. I was very happy and i went to meet her first time and we were very happy with each other.

Her parents came to meet me and they met my parents and all of them were very happy and agreed for marriage.

I was suppose to get marry in feb 2005. In september 2004, i went to meet her and we stayed together for 4 dayz.. we had wonderful time together and she was very close to me.. but afte i came back (we live in differnt part of country), within few dayz, she asked me to delay marriage and didnt communicate with me at all and later, she cancelled the marriage.

Later, she told me that she doesn't think that i m the right guy for her. When i asked reason, she wasnt sure why.. Well, for all the 6 months, we had great time and we even had planned out house, future, kids and almost everything... we were very close and we were used to talk like husband and wife only...

And all sudden, she walked off....

Tell me how to get her back? I luv her tooooooooooooooooo much and miss her like anything.. its almost 3 months since we broken off and i had talked just couple of times with her. Yesterday only i just wrote her a long mail about all the mistakes, which i might have made and i am very open to correct myself.. I m still waiting for her reply (if she replies...)

I just want to know how to get her back? How to win her heart again?? How should i proceed?? I dont want to lose her at any cost..

Please guide me buddy..

Thanx a lot! If your tip works for me, then you will be an angel for me...

Waiting for ur advise..
Leo Advice
It sounds like you are already trying all the correct ways of getting her back. I have no magic answer for you. You met her on the net, so I hope you are continuing to try to contact her that way. If it's going to work you should use the same method you used the first time, in addition to other things (like the letter you wrote). I wish you the best of luck. If it doesn't work out, here are some tips on how to deal with the loss:
and here are more tips on trying to get her back:

Good luck,

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