Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Last time, when i was with 1 and a half month my boyfriend, Ed in a 3 months course, i like another guy Dric who is younger than me by 2 years.i like Dric cos i noticed that he talk to me with his eyes lit happily. He always ask me questions so we could talk. During a his speech in front of the class, he looked at me only (and sometimes around the class). One problem is that Dric is friends with Ed (just met during the course) and thay are quite close, which i don't understand.. And Dric knows i'm with Ed (u could actually see that Dric was dissapointed that i'm with someone else). Then suddenly, Dric started avoiding, rarely talking to me but always stealing glances at me.
i like Dric cos he is much better than Ed cos Ed thens to do things that i don't like (after i was with him 3 weeks later). Dric is cuter and has more class and is funnier. Ed is also funny but his funny is different and tend to do things that is embarrasing. Ed's english is also terrible. i did go out with Dric twice with a few friends.
Recently i Ed broke up with me (eventhought my intention was to break up with him first). And then next day after breaking up (and being friends back), he didn't look at me when he came to school, so i asked him if he was angry. He said no but actually that question made him angry saying i said it without feeling and like nothing happen. If i didn't ask that question and act and talk like nothing happen is worse, right? We fought on the sms(text messaging) after class. i was so angry of him cos he said i don't know where i was wrong.
3 days later after breaking up, our class had a farewell party for a friend at a karaoke pub. i sms Dric about it and he did come but i don't know if Ed had told him about it already. Somehow i kept looking at Ed, stealing glances at Dric (which our eyes met 3 times) and when Ed was about to leave, Dric wanted to stay but Ed called him to follow him. i wanted Dric to follow me (i think, cos he lives near me and its on the way). i could see Dric thinking if he should follow Ed or stay but he left with Ed anyway quietly. After they left, i was so upset, i almost wanted to cry. So i called my best friend, Mia, to go outside and tell her how i feel. Then Mia's crush, a Korean named Seo came outside. Mia quicly went in coz she couldn't bear to see Seo smoking. Seo saw that i was sad and asked. i said nothing but he asked me again and i started to tear. Seo got shocked and sat next to me. Somehow he knew i just broke up with Ed but i told him that wasn't the reason i was tearing. i told him it was Dric and more tears started to drop. i don't know why i was crying. Seo wipe my tears away (and i could see why Mia like him so much cos he is do gentle). I calmed myself few minutes later and decided to change the subject and talk about something else.
Why did i cry? This i the first time i cried like that. My other best friend, Nel said it was because of guilt with Ed. i don't know. Could be because i wanted Dric so much. i don't know what spell did he put on me. Our course in now over, i won't be able to see Dric and he will be going back to school (nor is Mia going to see Seo and she confessed to Seo on sms that she like him that night). Nel and i played a "thing" that could answer some questions of the present and future that belonged to Nel's father. i told Nel to ask if Dric likes me and it answered yes very much. Nel asked if i was going to break with Ed and it said yes (bonus question). Then another time Mia and I played Nepoleon's fate book and asked a question about love. it said i would marry the one i like now (would be funny if it was true) but i have to wait now. So i was wondering from your point of view, about this situation i'm going through.
Unless I am missing something this seems quite straightforward. You broke up with Ed and like Dric. So get the message to Dric that you like him. He obviously likes you. True love will blossom. Give it a try.
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