Memories of ex

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Hi !
I love my current girlfriend very very much for starters.
I had an ex-girlfriend which I loved deeply and she didn't love me back and she gave me hell so I broke up with her.
My current girlfriend love to me reminds me the way I was in love with my old one, so I keep comparing with them both and it's making me crazy.When I'm thinking about my current girlfriend I remembers my old one right after,I kind of made this connection between them in my head.
I wanted to know how can remove the connection between them in my mind and how to forget the old one completly.Is it possible ?
I also wanted to know if it is going to happen?
Is it normal ?
Do I have to share it with my current girlfriend ?
Does this means I don't love my current one enought ?
I'm very confused....
Thank you in advance...! Advice
You wrote the other day with the same question and my answer is still the same. Here is what I wrote:

It is perfectly natural to think of past girlfriends and compare them with your current girlfriend. Don't let this confuse you too much. Your ex was bad news and you should be glad to be rid of her. Concentrate on your new gf and give her all the love you have.

At some point you may feel so trusting of your new girlfriend that you could discuss your concerns with her. That would be good if you could do it without stirring up trouble.

Things are going well for you!
Best wishes,

-- from George
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