Still love the guy who cheated

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I was with a guy for almost a year. We had a great relationship and he seemed like the perfect guy. We were very serious and talked about getting engaged soon. A few months ago, he met someone while on vacation and slept with her. He broke up with me and said he had feelings for her and didn't want me anymore. It's been two months and I still can't get over him. I've tried everything to get over him. I've even dated someone else. I'm completely miserable. I heard that he now wants me back, but I don't think I could ever trust him again. I have no idea what to do, but I still love him. Advice
Sorry about the situation you are in.

My advice is to determine whether he really wants you back and if so, meet with him to discuss the issues between you. Make clear your feelings including whether you could ever trust him again. Two very important elements of love are honest communication and trust.

You are caught between two feelings that tell you to do two different things. Think very hard about whether you could rebuild trust with him... many people have done so in your situation. Only you can make the decision whether your love for him outweighs your distrust.

Whatever you decide to do, best of luck!

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