He still won't listen
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I have another question to ask...my ex boyfriend is still attached. I broke up with him a month ago. we are really good friends still though. the reason i broke up with him is because i wasnt ready. I am 15 and i feel like i need to expeience more before i pick out my soul mate no matter if i love him or not...because how will i know? but thats not the point. The point is, that he has told some friends about our break up and now he says he is going to tell everyone that asks that we are back together. I think this is wrong because you should tell them the truth. He really wants me back and he was such a good boyfriend to me, but i cant because im not ready and it was the only thing i could do..you know? and i tell him that over and over and he thinks we could have worked it out, but how can you work out a feeling? He expects me to be going out with another guy "better" than him in a matter of months, when i only want lots more friends im not looking into relationships right now becuase i need to focus on other things. Basically my question is, what do i say to him when he tells me that he is going to tell people we got back together. and how do i tell him to move on...even though i have a number of times,,,how do i really make him realize? if you could answer those to questions for me i would be so grateful! thanks
My answer is going to be brief, because it sounds like you have reached a point of no return with this guy. Make it clear to him that if he lies to his friends that you will no longer be friends with him. Also tell him that he needs to get over his feelings for you or you will stop your friendship. If he truly cares for you, as he says he does, he will go along with what you say.
Hope this helps,
-- from George
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