i really started noticing the changes in him

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been dating my boyfriend for 4.5 years now and just in the past year is when i really started noticing the changes in him. I found him calling another girl he works with for about a month and then when i found out he said he only kissed her.???? He has other girls phone numbers and I havent worked in the past year because of my anxiety. but he didnt work the first 3 years we dated and now he wants to throw that in my face all of the time. I truly love him and have no clue how to leave if I was going to I really need some great advice on what you think. I think he believes i have held him back from everything he has wanted and I feel I have loved and tried to help him through everything please help me

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It sounds like he's ready to move on. Let him go.

If you are having trouble moving out, try asking your family or friends for a place until you can get on your feet.

With regard to anxiety issuse, see a healthcare professional. There is help and you don't need to be trapped by your feelings.

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