Then he continued calling me and then he came over

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
My boyfriend was hanging out with some friends 2 other couples and then him and this girl were the odd balls! And she kissed him. He then broke up with me and told me that it was because he din't feel the same way about me anymore that he had fallen out of love with me. Then he continued calling me and then he came over and we spent the day together, and after that he told me that the reason he broke up with me wasn't because he had fallen out of love with me but because some other girl had kissed him and he didn't know what to do because he was scared of loosing me, and that infact he really does love me and doesn't want to loose me. I couldn't even bring myself to get mad @ him or anything over the fact that him and another girl kissed. I couldn't even bring myself to get mad @ him. All I could think about is how much I love him! And I gave him another chance and all but I'm not sure it was the right thing to do. HELP... Advice
Sounds to me like you have what you want, and you're just asking if it's the right thing to take him back.

Of course. He's apologized for his bad behavior and he punished himself by breaking up with you. Then he realized that he couldn't stand being without you, and so now he's asking you to take him back. This is a perfect thing for you. You didn't need to get mad at him at all... he was all mad at himself and broke up for you. So now you can forgive him and move on with your relationship.


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