Should I break up with my boyfriend for an ex?

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
ok muh first love was with this guy named octavio...(and the only one i have ever loved) well we havent been dateing for almost a year now... and havent really talked... and i have a new bf... but i dont love him.. But now me and octavio started talking again and i still love him and i told him that.. so now hes thinking about what he should do... but now i donno what to do... should i wait and see what octavio's decision is befor i break up with muh bf? help plz Advice
The mere fact that you don't like your current boyfriend is a reason to break up with him, no matter what Octavio does or doesn't do. It's not fair to either you or your current boyfriend to stay together just because it's easier than being alone. Have the strength of character to let go of the relationship and be on your own, and then you can see if Octavio and you have a future together.

Good luck, and let us know how it turns out!

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