She Makes Excuses about Why We Split

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
my ex girlfriend drinks sometimes. she thought i had a problem with it and i told her many times that i dident have a problem with it. i told her that i dident have a prolem with it and i talked about it well for a bit and she sent me a email saying that shes afraid to loose me and then 6 days later she sends me another one saying i think we should just be friends and one of the reasons y is because she beleives that i dont want to say it but i dont like anything she does and today i find out that she thinks were to difforent.

how can i get her to go back out with me? Advice
It sounds like she is really just not that happy with things and was looking for all sorts of excuses to make it easy on you.

You can never "make" someone to do anything. Love is about two people both voluntarily choosing to be with each other. The best you can do is remain her friend, and hope that she gets over this indecision and confusion in her life. But at least talk to her about why she REALLY left. She owes you that much - and you need to know if you're to work on that issue going forward.

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