My girlfriend after 1 year decided that we needed a break

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My girlfriend after 1 year decided that we needed a break so i agreed, i felt we needed time apart, but now it has been almost 3 months, im afraid my girl doesnt want to get back with me, she tells me on the phone that she loves me and wants to get back with me but she goes out alot, and I talk to her maybe once a day, she has alot of guy friends, that she goes out with, and I dont know if shes looking for another partner or if she is still waiting for me, when I ask her about it she says when she feels ready, i have been patiently waiting for her, I see her maybe once every 2 weeks, the last time I saw her she was very quiet and had nothing to say, we saw 2 of her friends and she seemed more happy to see them then myself, I dont know about this relationship, is my girl just leading me on, because she tells me that she is waiting for me, but when people like her friends ask about us she says she is not with me anymore, the last time i saw her was like for 10 min. she wanted contact lenses, i think she is looking for someone else, what should i do?? Advice
It sounds to me like she's already broken up with you and you are the last to know. What I get is that she doesn't know how to tell you without hurting your feelings.

The only advice I can give to you is to stop calling her and start living your life. If she calls you and ask what's up, tell her, otherwise, consider yourself single.

Best wishes,

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