I Love my Girlfriend - but I Cheated
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 months and everything is going great, i have never cheated in my life and i told her i would never cheat. 2 months have passed, I am not in love with her yet but i do see it happening.
last night i gave into temptation and slept with another girl. This girl was all over me and i told her to not get up on me like that because i had a girlfriend, i was drunk and i gave in and started messing around with her and eventually slept with her. I feel so bad,i feel that i dont deserve my girlfriend, She is such a perfect girl, one that i could marry down the road. i just dont know if im ready for such a perfect girl but i dont want to give her up and lose something that could have made me happy for the rest of my life.
so now i feel bad and dont know what to do. But one thing i do know is i really like my girlfriend alot and dont want to lose her for some one night stand. please help me i dont want to cheat!
You must tell her immediately. She's going to find out sooner or later, and the sooner the better. Apologize over and over and over again, and make it clear that this was a one time mistake that will never happen again.
It is your responsibility as a member of a relationship to not let yourself get into that position. You obviously didn't push this girl away too hard, and you got yourself drunk. Nobody was forcing drinks down your throat. We all make choices in life. If my boyfriend was out at strip clubs every night, getting drunk, then that is a recipe for disaster. He chooses NOT to do that, out of respect for me. You need to be mature enough to make that same sort of choice.
-- from Lisa
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