My Ex is Coming Back

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I am having a problem with my kinda x bf. We haven't really talked for a year since we stopped talking. Now we are on the same team and have to spend 2 whole days together including the night. I think he wants back togther.

The reason I didn't want to talk to him was he was getting to physical too fast! No we never even kissed but i'd say I didn't want him to touch me a certain way but he did anyway. He would never let me alone so I could be with my friends. My friend told me that he said I like him as more then a friend which is def. not true. When were around other people and stuff he treats me differant and then I sometimes get questioned about it. It's like he'd say something and someone would go how does he know that. I was talking to a friend a few weeks ago and he walked up behind me and wraped his arms around me! Which I didn't like. Advice
The most important thing you can ever possibly do is stand up for yourself. Nobody should ever touch you in a way you dislike. It doesn't matter why you have the feelings you do. We all have "lines" we draw and our lines are our own. If this guy isn't respecting your boundaries, then tell him to get lost.

-- from Lisa
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