Breaking Up with Him First

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I'm dating this guy but all of my friends which is a lot tell me that he is going to break up with me for another girl. should I believe them and break up with him first? Advice
What an odd idea! You're listening to rumors about a relationship YOU ARE IN? Doesn't that strike you as odd? And just because of those rumors, you are going to hurt the person you're with, because you think that might let you be the "winner"?

Bad bad bad. If you're old enough to date, then surely you're old enough to handle this situation. Sit down with him. Talk with him! Find out if he's not happy with your relationship. That's what people who are dating are supposed to do.

-- from Lisa
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