How do I Break Up?

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
MY boyfriend is 13 years older then me and we live 2 and a half hours away from each other and i almost cheated on him once and since then he has no faith in me.

i just want to end the relationship. I dont know how to tell him i dont want to see him anymore. Its just to much and to hard to handle. Advice
If you're mature enough to enter into a relationship, you better be mature enough to end it in a reasonable fashion. Take a deep breath. Set up a meeting with him in a 3rd party location - a park or something where there are not waiters staring at you - and just tell him. Tell him to his face, give him time to talk about it, and then when you're done. Leave.

Breaking up is not easy. But again, if you were willing to take the step to say "Yes I will date you" then you better be willing to then end it healthily, too.

-- from Lisa
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