I Cheated Twice - I Want to Rebuild the Trust

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i cheated on my boyfriend of 4 years and slept with 2 other guys.he says he still loves and cares for me,but he doesn't know what he wants to do with me and him.we broke up and he tells me that we'll try to work it out and just roll with the punches he says.

i want him back in my life. it took me 2 times to learn from my mistakes. what i did was a mistake. but i lost his trust. what should i do. i still love him and care for him. he's my first everything

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You are going to have to start from the very beginning and rebuild his trust as a friend again before you can go further. Read all my tips on the site about how to rebuild trust and then work on it every day. It will take quite a while, but if you work on it with great focus, you can get that trust rebuilt.

-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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