Issues with my Ex

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
me and my ex broke up for the 1st time about a year ago because he had his birthday party but i was in NY and he and my friend kissed the day i found out he had no remourse so of course i broke up with him but the next day which was Sunday he called,he called Friday and the next Sunday and after about 3 weeks of calling My birthday came on a Sunday and the phone rang i looked on the caller ID and it was him.After i'd say about 4 months we went back out but then someone else asked me out who i liked so i broke up with my ex and went with the new boy.

Its been about 3 months since we last talked on the phone and i still have feelings for him and he still has feelings for me but we both deny it,but if he gets a chance to touch me or talk to me he will but in march my church is going on a trip and the outfit i'll be wearing will cause my ex to talk about me and say i look nice but all behind my back.I know what he is saying about me and i like it,he and i still have feelings for each other but won't admit it,what do i do? Advice
It's really not a good sign if he cheats without remorse and if you ditch him for other guys. You both have feelings, but apparently they're not strong enough to actually cause a commitment.

If you actually want this to work, then you need to be serious about it. A relationship is about two people who care about each other - not two people who use each other until something better comes along. Are you sure you're really at that point in your life?

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