how can i get over her??

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
i need advice.......and here's my story
i dated her, we broke up and it was the most difficult thing in my life bc she left me for another man, but even then she cheated on her bf with me and got pregnant........the thing is that after while she was pregnant there was alot of drama with her not knowing who the father was, she did alot of bad things and she is not worth it......but anyways it took me a long time to accept the fact that it still hurts me, specially because the baby is mine and well her bf forgave her for having cheated on him so they're still together........most of the time im fine but is just that it still hurts me, and i just dont know how to get over her!! specially because i have to be in contact with her for almost the rest of my life because of the baby, so that makes it harder to get over it.......it has been 3 years that we broke up and i still have a hard time....i dont think i love her like i used to but it still hurts...... i need advice

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I hope you got a blood test because you may be worrying about something that really didn't happen. It would cause a lot of misery if you asked to have it done now, so I don't recommend it.

Put your energy into loving the child and that might help your feelings for her die out. The child will be happier if you are happier. Think about it.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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