Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Being too nice isn''t the problem. What you need to do is start standing up for yourself. Be assertive but not mean. If you don''t do this, people will think you are wishy-washy and not respect you. Work on this aspect of your inner self.

Becoming active in sports or going to the gym will also help you with becoming more assertive.

She may come back to you, but show her you are strong... this will be difficult at first and you may make mistakes but still do it.

Good luck! George


Hi George,

Since I am currently working on my self, what should I do and How could I bring her close to me as before? Things seem different than before. After our break up, we sometimes laugh and then somehow there were days when she would have flash back on me and would scared. I think somehow I've done so much damage to her. How could I prove to her that I have changed? Could you give me some advices of step that I could take? thanks Advice
Keep working on yourself. Let her know you are doing it but not in a bragging way. Read a book on improving relationships, let her know. She will know that you are taking steps to be better and will respect you for that.

This won't happen overnight so give it at least a month before expecting results. Once a month is up you should see whether she is more attracted to you and then treat her like a girlfriend with dinners, etc.

Good luck! George

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