how can i can make her back to me?

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Hi sir,

I would like to know how can i make her back, my girfriend and me argued, bec. i want her to love me, i mean, not only by words, to feel what is lost when she's busy at work, coz. we didn't see everyday, but when she wants to see me, Im always there, but everytime im with her by her side, she didn't give her attention to me, she wants to do somethings than me, like she wants to watch t.v, texting. not those time when she's always like hugging me, i feel cold, me and i are 1 year now, but everyday, is changing, and i don't know if love of her is fading, but i do still love her, i wanted to save whats lost, i mean, i don't want those days when im with her to be wasted, coz. i want her to feel me everyday, like loving her. but she always saying im too much, and told me, don't put your attention so much to me, but, i didn't, i do it, when she's by my side, but, she doesnt understand it, she's kind a girl who's workaholic or something, but yes i do know she love me. i believe it, but i don't know if i force her to do it, but i can't stand it, but i do love her,.. she texted me and told me, she needs space, and she doesnt know what kind of love or do our love is like something wrong or she doesnt know what to do, and told me that i do my own, and do her own,.. and this is her last text to me. thats all. im a sweet person sir, and every time we have probs. im the one who pursuing her, even she did the wrong way. pls help me. thanks sir Advice
First give her the time she requested. Two or three weeks should be ok.

Then send her roses and a box of dark chocolates to make her feel good. Attach a note to the flowers which says "I hope we can talk sometime" Then call her and ask her to go out to dinner at a nice restaurant.

These things may encourage her to be attracted to you again.

I hope so and good luck! George

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