dumped me for another guy. need desperate help
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im sorry but i didnt have time to look throught the site cause im a working man. but anyways this girl and me have been going out for a good couple months and we were happy. but she always talked about this other guy and how she ditched the chance to go be with him and go for me. she kinda broke up with me a couple days ago but she didnt mean it. anyways we were suppose to hang out at her friends house an hour away from here but later this week she called me and told me not to come and to give her stuff back.. i was confused and upset. (theres way more to the story but im trying to sum it up). so i drive all the way there to talk to her and return her stuff. she comes outside and sais she loves me and hugs me and sais that me driving all the way there just to see her proved i loved her. she takes my hand and pulls me into the house to talk. there were 4 other guys there but it didnt bother me. it was the fact that her dream guy was there. anyways he leaves with everyone else and ive been sitting upstairs with them downstairs having a great time for about an hour and a half waiting for her to come talk to me. after everyone left.. heres where it gets real intense. her dream guy comes back not knowing im still there. so my EX girlfriend comes upstairs and sais "your still here?" and i was shocked because she was suppose to talk to me. like i said more to the story.. but basically i was balling my eyes out because this guy came back for a reason.. and i asked her.. "i thought you said you loved me? and you hugged me and everything?" guess what she sais.. "i never said that to you and i never hugged you" SHE DENIED EVERYTHING that she did when i first got there just because her dream guy was standing right there. she said she didnt love me or anything. found out its been going on 3 weeks behind my back since i got back from dominican republic for my graduation trip. and now i know why she said dont come tonight. im sorry if this is a same situation already answered but this JUST happened and im desperate for help. what would you do? i was a good, loyal boyfriend and my heart got stomped. i just need to know how to handle this. Thanks!
My advice is to forget this woman.
She has betrayed you in the worst way. Why would you want to pursue this relationship? She has other interests in her mind.
Save yourself heartache and find another woman to help you heal your wounds. There are thousands of women looking for a good man like you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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