I fell in love with my mistress

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
I've been with my fiance for a year now, and have been cheating on her for about 6 months. I now find myself torn between the woman i'm supposed to marry and my lover. My lover is exciting, fun, and outgoing, and not to mention a beast in bed. On the other hand my fiance is fun, stable, and a home body. It's come to the point that I am thinking about about leaving my fiance and moving in with my lover, any advice on whether I should do this?

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Only you can determine what to do. If your decision is to leave her, you might as well just tell her straight out.

If you are not sure what to do, talk this over with your fiance. Ask her what she thinks you should do. The odds are good that she will tell you to be a beast in bed with yourself. But, in case she wants to keep you, you should be ready with your decision.

My sense is that you have already made the decision by what you are doing. So, my advice is to tell your fiance that you are leaving.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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