Do i need to breakup
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Im a 22 year old girl currently working freindly to a 23 year old boy for over 1 and half year. He is working. This boy is of my caste. He was from my college used to speak to him on phone and since then cant stay without speaking to him. We met and we started meeting every weekend. His quiet caring and understanding doesn't drink or smoke not hot tempered. Everthing is very smooth between us. He loves me very much. His financially also good.
The thing is that his not quiet good looking and quiet shy. I have always wanted a tall guy but this person is just about my height a bit taller than me. Besides im taller than his dad. His family has accepted me. My family every1 is tall. My mom has seen him and she dint like him and has asked me to stay away from him just by lookin at him (looks). Besides my freinds and cousins too dint quiet like him coz of his looks they told you can get a better person than him. His got all the good qualities the only thing that pricks me is that i always wanted a tall guy and his not tall. And i think further in life i might repent on seeing my other freinds having a good looking guy. Do you think i should breakup with him coz of this. Will i get a better person with such qualities. Please tell me how do i tell him.
If i dont breakup how do i make my family understand.
He is not good looking, not tall, he is shy and your mother doesn't like him.
You worry that you might regret marrying him. You don't mention whether you love him a little or a lot.
These are all signposts that you should not be with him. You've known him for one year and six months. You should know by now how strong your love is for him. It doesn't seem strong.
My advice is to tell him you have lost your feelings for him and that you want to look for someone new. This will make him quite sad, but he will have to live with it.
Sorry this has happened to you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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