Im in love with a man that doesn't want me

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
ok here it is i met this man in june 21st to be exact july 3rd he asked me out i was so shy and said no i don't want a relationship but the whole time i loved him. so we did friends with benefits. last month he wantsed our parents to meet and smoke weed together 2 weeks ago he told me he wanted someone eals that we would not make a good couple and he wants someone that has had a bad childhood as he did in fact someone that has had the same exact one he was raped twice one man one woman and beaten by his step dad he claims i don't know him he also drinks and smokes weed and i already messed it up by crying way too many times and he said last week he would find me a man don't worry he called it a bad omen if we ever dated and said when i rejected him he had to change his mind and now he don't wanna change it back and said i don't wanna keep changing it i been crying for 2 weeks skipping college classes not eating up all night he said we could be friends but he don't even wanna hang out right now im trying to give him space but i want him back so bad oh yeah his dad looves me and his friends love me. So what do i do to officially get him back? did i mention he is a drunk mabey being drunk will help me but he is no homer simpson very smart pleae someone help me thank you Advice
My advice is to stop the crying etc.

He won't want to come back to someone who is so miserable and that he feels guilty about. Show him you can be happy without him. Get back to your studies, listen to happy music, and find someone new.

This will attract him back to you.

Also, look at our advice on how to get back an ex:

Good luck! George

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