not sure wots goin on.

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
ok here it is! i ve been with my gf for 2 years now and it has been an AMAZING ride! we have learned sop much dfrom each other and had great times 2gether! but lately things have changed she has started goin out with her friends more than she used to and the other day she said'' all i want is to have fun with friends'' hwenver we are 2gether i dunno things are not like they used 2! shes says that is different now whenever we are 2gether! im leavin soon im goin to england 2 study and shes goin to stay here nd we are both confused nd dont knw wot to do ! we dont text so much to each other anymore and its like the romance is gone!the other nite she came ova nd a friend of her nd he keeps txtin her and whenever she tells him shes with me hes like '' ok we ll talk later.. '' nd i dont know wots goin on ! do u thing we should just break up and stay friends now before i go to england? thank you for your time! Advice
Very often an upcoming parting (like your going to England) will cause trouble in a relationship.

It may be that one or both of the people realize how difficult a long distance romance can be.

Since your GF is growing apart from you, you have the right idea about breaking up with her now and being her friend. It's probably going to happen anyway.

Good luck! George

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