an unusual situation i dont know what to do!!!

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Me and my ex have been together for 2 years. i had developed a drug use problem and went to rehab for 1 month to better myself. they wouldnt let me talk to anyone for a month. so when i got out i called her and she didn't want anything to do with me. she told me she had another boyfriend. so i let it go. then 2 weeks later she shows up at my doorstep and we start talking. she said she had lied about her having a boyfriend. then she seduces me in a very flirtatious way and we have sex, 3 times that day. she starts calling me babe again and tells me she still loves me. but for now she just wants to be friends. then at the end of the weekend she gets a phone call from her firend saying me and her friend had been talking. i did talk to her but only about my ex. so my ex calls me frantic enraged like id never seen her act. she starts saying she does have a boyfriend and she only came to my house and did those things with me to hurt me. i just dont get her she is not the same girl i used to know. is she really out to hurt me. when she was here and telling me that she wants to be with me again just not now i could tell she meant it. what is going on? Advice
I don't believe she was trying to hurt you when she came to see you.

My feeling is that she went crazy after hearing that you had been talking to another girl.

If you want to find out the truth, you will need to get her to talk with you in a open and gentle way so each of you can find out the truth.

Good luck! George

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