Am I still in love or what?

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I am a married woman and I still finds myself thinking and dreaming about my first love. I was 17 years old when I first fell in love with him. His mom tried her hardest to keep us apart and eventually it worked we broke up and went our seperate ways but I still can not seem to get him out my mind. I was his first love too.I recently heard from him and he is going through a divorce but he really did not want to bothered by me he talked a lil bit but when I ask him for some contact information he never wrote me back. I am really sorry that we both hurt one another but I need to really get him out of my mind. Can you help me? BY the way I am really in love with my husband but why on earth I can not forget him I sometimes think because we are the ones who suppose to got married and had kids together but that was not in God's plan. I even cried when he did not contact me back after asking for his address. I love him but I am not in love with him can you please tell me what can I do to shake this ? I have not seen him since I was 21 years old and he was 20. Help me please!!! Advice
It is quite normal to retain loving memories of a first, good love.

Just accept it as normal. Try not to make further contact with him so you have fewer things to think about.

Treasure the memories you have and let sleeping dogs lie.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at

Add RomanceClass  to Twitter Add RomanceClass  to Facebook Add RomanceClass  to MySpace Add RomanceClass  to Digg RomanceClass+ Add RomanceClass  to Yahoo My Web Add RomanceClass  to Google Bookmarks Add RomanceClass  to Stumbleupon Add RomanceClass  to Reddit

Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question!

All Advice in the category - Breakup Issues

Browse our Answer Database
- Browse Answers by Question Category
- Browse Answers by Age Group
- Browse Answers by Date of Response

Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.