shes losing interest i think what do i do
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
me and my girlfriend has been going out for six months. she used to love me alot she claims she still does.but i broke with her for a day, and now she is talking about she doesnt think she wants a boyfriend. because of her school she says she still loves me, but i just get the feeling that she thinks shes better then me and she wont admit it. i want to make her love me like she used to because i know she still likes me but i just dont know how.
First be sure that she knows you love her. This is important.
I mention it because nowhere in your note did you mention that you cared for her... only that you want her back. Of course you probably do love her but she needs to know for sure and the way to do that is to tell her straight out. Tell her that you need her, but don't be needy or clingy about it.
After all, you broke up with her and so you should be the one who makes it crystal clear how you feel. It may just make a difference.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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