Very Complicated

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
ok,recently me and my girlfriend of a year in a half broke up, We have a baby girl Together that is 7 months old, She tells me she loves me and that she wants to find out if We are ment to be together, At first i didnt like the idea, so she started seeing this guy and a week into the relationship, Me and her have sex, and she already cheated on him with me...Soooo...i decided to try and get her back and she still told me that she needs time to herself..i didnt treat her very well for a while because i was immature and i was a jerk to her, but when we broke up i really found myself and im ready to settle down with her and raise are child together im 20 years old she is 19 years old . she said she want 1-2 years before we get back together because she wanted to finish school and when we get back together she just wants it to be completely serious and get engaged me and married and that stuff. is this normal?? and what do i expect i want her back how can i show her that?? Advice
As father of the little girl, you have visiting rights.

Take advantage of those times to make sure your ex realizes that you have matured, that you still care for, and you want to be with her to raise the baby.

This might not work right away, but after a while she may start to see that you are serious and deserve her attention.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at

Add RomanceClass  to Twitter Add RomanceClass  to Facebook Add RomanceClass  to MySpace Add RomanceClass  to Digg RomanceClass+ Add RomanceClass  to Yahoo My Web Add RomanceClass  to Google Bookmarks Add RomanceClass  to Stumbleupon Add RomanceClass  to Reddit

Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question!

All Advice in the category - I Want my Ex Back

Browse our Answer Database
- Browse Answers by Question Category
- Browse Answers by Age Group
- Browse Answers by Date of Response

Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.