what to do??

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male

well to be honest i've triedur advice about keep on dating other women so i would forget abt my ex. well the deal is that recently i called to her house to talk to her brother (we play soccer together) and she answered so we talked and wants me to talk to her more often, which obviously i wont. its just that sometimes i feel like getting back with her but why get back with a person that is cheating on her current bf? i mean after we broke up we hung out several times, had sex and made out all those times even though she was already going out with another guy. now my question is why did she do that? she broke up with me cuz she didnt have any feeelings for me anymore but after the break up we still had intimacy, i just dont get it, do u have an answer for that? i know its not a real question i just wanted to know ur opinion on that issue, like what were her feelings and all that, but like i said before its a general question.

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It isn't all that unusual for split up couples to be intimate afterward.

The heart doesn't usually turn completely cold all at once... it continues to burn for the -ex even if we don't want it to. So that's probably why she has been intimate with you and wants to talk. She's having a hard time letting go.

Good luck! George

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