I'm so lost and confused... I'm sick of it!

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
ok im 16, theres so many mixed emotions. theres 2 guys.
Guy 1- went out with him for almost a year, my mother didnt know, i love him and miss him now.. he left for university. he's 19. neglected me near the end of the relationship
Guy 2- see him at school everyday, my age, i like him and he's so understanding but he's basically saying that him and i are going to go out

Guy 1 wants me back and tells me he loves and misses me so much, that i made him feel complete... and i told him i want to let go... just be single for a bit. How can i stop feeling guilty about hurting him and make him realize that getting back together isnt what i want right now? how can i let go.. i just feel so caged by Guy 1 and Guy 2. Please Help!

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Sometimes you have to do what is right for you. That seems to be where you are right now.

Both Guy 1 and 2 are putting a lot of pressure on you to be with them. You need time to be alone to give yourself time to figure out what you really want to do without all the pressure.

Tell both of them that you are at a time where you need space so that you can feel better. Both guys should be willing to accept this... and if they aren't then they also aren't worthy of your attention.

Take some time for yourself to figure this out... no need to rush!

Good luck. George

-- from George
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