My Ex Is Dating Someone Else

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
me and my girlfriend slip up 3 months ago after 2 years of dating. we are still very close and pretty much live together. she said she wanted to be single and find herself. but 2 days ago she started seeing this guy. we live about 250 miles from where we lived and that is where that guy is. we are still close and still love each other but now i don't know what to do. if i cut off contact she might leave me altogether and or she might realize what she lost. but i can't take that chance. i am deeply in love with here and can't lose her. any advice would be greatly appreciatted Advice
Give it more time before you make any decisions.

It's only been two or three days since she found him and this other guy might be a short-timer.

Remain friends with her and keep talking, trusting, and giving affection as much as you can. These things are important parts of any relationship.

Good luck! George

-- from George
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