should I stay or should I go?

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I've been with my fiance for 9 months now and I am currently having his child. We live together and things were going great at first but now everytime he gets a day off of work we always argue. He always wants me to pick up after him and he always wants me to go the extra mile for him but he never pushes out any efort for me and im carrying his child. I want to make this relationship work for my child but how much can a woman take? I want to him to be someone he's not. Should I leave him and find someone new or should I stay and try to make it work for the child's sake? Please Help! Advice
My advice is to wait until the child is born to decide.

Perhaps seeing his baby will make him act different. You certainly will need more help and he should see it.

Meanwhile talk with him and gently let him know that he needs to pay attention to you and give you help.

If he doesn't change after the child is born then dump him.

Good luck! George

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