how to get her back

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well,my ex and i dated for four and a half years. we broke up about four months ago. from all accounts, things were very good during the entire relationship. we didn.t fight too often and always had fun when we hung out. we had opened a joint bank account three months prior to breaking up to save for our wedding. i was planning to propose this month (july 06, on our 5 year anniversary.)

now that i've set the stage. the one thing that was reaccuring in our realtionship was the fact that she felt i didnt make her my number one priority. i would want to go out with the guys once or twice a week without her. my argument was always "me and my frineds dont have much time left to habg out like this, we have our whole lives to be together"

to be honest, sometimes i prolly took her for granted but i ALWAYS loved her. i has flowers sent to her work every hoilday, we took a trip, just me and her, every suummer.

when we broke up, she said she wasnt in love with me anymore and said for the last two years, she wasnt sure if she was in love with me, beacuse i made her feel unwanted.

regardless, i know this is the love of my life and i want one more shot at it. we havent spoke for two months now as it was just making things on both of us to talk. what can i do to get her back? Thanks! Advice
Your best shot is to make her feel wanted and like your number one priority.

Call her and tell her how you miss her and that you want her back in your life. Tell her she is the number one thought on your mind and that you can't get her out of your mind. Hopefully this is mostly true.

Ask tons of questions about her life. How she has been doing, has she met anyone, how her relatives are, etc etc. In any good relationship the partners need to be interested in each other.

With any luck, this attention (and that is what she craves) will make her think better of you and perhaps bring her back.

Good luck! George

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