I want to get her back but dont know what to do

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I was with my ex for about four years and three months, we were supposed to be getting married this month, but three weeks before the wedding she tells me that she is not ready for a committment and that she is to young to settle down, when we first split up i thought she was just confused but now i found out that she is seeing this new guy who is nothing like me he is a thug/gangsta type person and she always hated these type of people, and she also tells me now that she never loved me, but if that is true why did she by me a exspensive wedding ring, i am starting to think that this girl has mental problems because she came had a messed up child hood, but she tells me that she never wants to get back with me then why does she call me still, I dont know what to do should i even try to get her back or just move on, but i do want to get her back so what do i do to show her that i am the man for her or should i just ignore her and hope she comes back, well hope you can answer my question

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Tell her you will wait for her a short amount of time... a month or two.

But once that time is up you will start dating. Be gentle when you tell her this.

She is probably still calling you out of habit since you were dating so long.

And, she is probably just trying out new experiences for the same reason.

Good luck! George

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