it hurts when i think of her

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
hi im 14 years old and im askin for help...i broke up with my girlfriend(14 years old) a month or so ago and i loved her sooo much she was my 1st love my 1st in bed i gave her avary thing we done evary thing sexual 2gethar in bed AND IM NOT MAKING THIS UP!,when i found out about a month b4 we split up i found out she was being unfaithfull 2 me with another male(18-19 years old) for sex (i also dug up that she is being unfaithfull to him aswell) i cried and cried over her but i still loved her(i still cry when i think about her)iv cept this a secret intill now incase she found out and i found out a few days ago she is with the same lover it cut me deep but i didnt show it i dont want anyone knowing how i feel about her,i want to know do i still love her i really dont like talking about her or thinking about her she hurt me so bad but i cant help but wonder...DO I STILL LOVE HER! please tell me im in agony if i do how can i stop feeling this way please help me Advice
Giving up a love is often difficult.

Whenever she comes into your mind, tell yourself that she is a cheat and that she is no good for you. Keep doing this until the thoughts of her stop bothering you. It may take a while but eventually you will stop thinking of her.

Also, find things to do to keep your mind off of her. Try to find a new girl.

Good luck! George

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