My Ex is Being Friendly

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
today my church had a picnic and my ex-boyfriend was there. All the kids was having a water fight and my ex kept acting like he was going after someone else but when I turned around he hit me with the water not once, not twice but more than 20 times. He also tried to make me fall but it didn't work so I kept on running and fell and the way I fell my back facing up towards the sky my ex threw a water ballon at my butt and then he helped me out. He also talked to me alot and we are not friends.

Can you tell me whether or not he wants to go back with me. Advice
You say you're not friends with your ex, but obviously you are. You guys talked a ton and were having fun together! That's what friendship is all about. Maybe you have a *strained* friendship but it is definitely a friendship.

He certainly seems like he is actively wanting to spend time with you. If you are interested in him, I would of course spend time with him back! But be sure you guys talk seriously about WHY you broke up the last time around. The only way it will work this time is if you really talk about the last time, both admit to what the issues were and make a REAL effort to combat them this time.

-- from Jenn
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