Sick And Tired of being Sick and Tired

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
What's up George It's been a while since you've heard from me but I'm still having the same problem with my ex again.
OK I've stared working not too long ago right back in March
and the day I got the job was my ex birthday so when I got home I called her and told her I had a job now and she was happy for me.But anyway she started going with some dude and they were together for a while now they are broken up because he cheated on her.So one day back on the 29th of last month she called me up and we were talking for awhile
then out of nowhere she tells me she loves so I stared thinking to myself how can you love me when your with someone else.George I wanna know is that possible?Then back on the 12th of this month she called me again when I didn't expect it this is when she called me and told me they were broken up.But while she was talking to me I could tell ther was something she wanted to say she just did'nt know how and I asked her was there something she wanted to tell me she said no.But now George it's the same shit again.I called her today and I asked her what was wrong with her she said nothing and I said do you wanna talk to me she said no then she said she'll talk to me later.George I Tell her all the time how I feel but it's like she doesn't care at all but when I ask her does she want me out of her life she say's no and starts crying. George I just don't know what to do anymore I really don't cause I this girl so much God knows I do everybody can see it except her.But if something ever should happen to me she'll be looking dumb then saying to her I should have got with "Jermaine" when I had the chance but know it's to late(By The Way My Name Is Jermaine).Man!George If you see this girl you'll see why I love her like I do.I'm telling you all this because Ijust don't wanna be alone for the rest of my life cause it get's hard. I talked to her friend to day and she told me she has another boyfriend I asked her friend does "Bri" ever say anything to her about me she say's not really except when they see me in the hallway she say there go Jermaine.And George when I'm sitting ther at the lunch table I'll catch her staring at me.George! Why she can't tell methe truth about does she or doesn't she want to be with me.(P.S I"M SORRY FOR THE ESSAY BUT YOU JUST HAVE TO FEEL WHER I"M COMING FROM. Give Me All The Advice you can Please!!!! Advice
You say you love her, but have you told her?

My advice is to directly tell her that you love and care for her and that it is driving you crazy not knowing how she feels about you.

That way you've got it out in the open and can discuss it out loud. Otherwise you both will just be wondering and guessing what the other is thinking.

Good luck! George

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