Am I moving on or not?

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
ok here is the thing, my ex-gf and I broke up about 9 months ago. I have done everything to help myself, improved myself in my professional life and some in personnal life. It seems like I still cant get the sadness and anger of my ex out of my head, so im thinking. I had planned to propose to her around the time we broke up. I've tried to date and everything, it has not clicked at all, which i feel weird being a guy and not really wanting to date right now. Does it seem like I am thinking too much? or am I not moving on from my ex, cuz sometimes i feel like i dont wanna go back to her, but sometimes it feels shes the only woman i can love? very frustrated right now Advice
You seem to be slow in moving on.

You really need to keep dating until you find someone that you are attracted to. Postponing the dating is just going to make things worse.

Make yourself a goal to get her out of your mind by July 15th. Whenever a thought of her comes into your mind, fight it like an enemy. Tell it that you are done with her and want to move on. After 100 or so times of saying that, the memories will stop bothering you and leave you in peace.

Good luck! George

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