Should I remain friendly to the girlfriend of the guy I like?

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I really started liking this guy until I found out that he had a girlfriend. It's hard not being around both of them because of the same places we hang out. I would avoid seeing them if I could. Is it advised that I not become too friendly with the girlfriend in case he is available one day? I feel I'm being two faced--I speak to her and I kinda still have feelings for him. Advice
You should be as friendly as you would to anyone.

If you like her then be friends, if you don't like her then don't.

If he ever becomes available it won't matter much how close you are to her. Just tell her how you feel about him and if she can't deal with it then too bad.

Good luck! George

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