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ok 411 on the past.I was going with this guy who chased me for a year then finally met me and asked me out.we`d been going steady for a good year nearly.I gained so much passion and inside feelings for him I mean it was more than physical outside puppy love.yes we argued sometimes what couple dosent.I would`ve done anything for him thats the point.well we both thought that I was pregnant but it turned out I wasnt wich hurt so the last time we talk face to face we had a huge arguement hurtful things were said ad we departed that hurt bad to because he didnt know I had went through some stuff with him.much deeper than it seems.Anyway valentines day came and well I couldnt help but call and see how it was going.suprisingly he called back and wished me a happy valentines day he said he`d call back later on that week but never did.once he saw me at the park with my friend we were walking for excercise plus I needed to clear my mind because he had just dumped me.he drove by and looked really hard out the window to see who it was.I was like gosh I need time to heal. Then the next time he saw me I was by myself but acted like he didnt see me.then recently I saw him and he stared at me again.It`s hard to think any hope of him dreaming about me or thinking about me.but when he stares it makes me curious.I`m still hurting from this relationship break up and wonder if I will ever be able to move on.recently some thing came back and reminded me of my false pregnancy with him (by the way this dosent have anything to do with the way he act trust me),plus I had brought a something for him long time and I just recieved it that hurt.I keep having dreams of him lots of them and lately I still hurt but have been making it.but I hate thinking about him and dreaming is something I cant help I keep doing that also.yes I still love him because no matter what I cant get mad at all the awful words exchanged between us.I know in my heart it was reall love because the breakup tore me to the core I just dont understand whats going on right now with him and me even though we broke up. Advice
You need to figure out what is going on between you two.

The way to do this is ask him if he could meet you someplace to talk for a while.

Once you are together, ask him all the questions you want to know. This is called seeking closure which you really need. Getting answers is what you need.

Good luck! George

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