should I stand by my man?

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Together for 3 yrs.Took him a year to be my bf,he would introduce me as his friend,until I left him for 3 months then he was serious.Things were great until his mom died.All his attention is to family now.I'm second.He always has a problem w/my family or friends.Marriage never comes up!He is now in a triatholn and all his attention is in that.He doesn't show affection.He always says I need to relax.that I read into everything.I be apart for a while he never answers.I cheated on him twice now,and feeling bad but cont. to see this guy and im really not into this new guy I just seem to be satisfied with all the attention.yet I miss my boyfriend when im with the other.I wish my bf would be more into me and show me more love.I told my bf about how I feel and he just says im being selfish and I should be more supportive,because hes going threw so much.He says work and death and finance has been putting alot on him.I want to leave him but I feel he will snap out of this in time? Advice
He is the selfish one not you.

But you are the cheating one. You should tell him that you cheated on him with two other guys. This will either shock him into treating you right or it will cause him to break up with you.

In either case you will be better off.

Good luck! George

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