Long Distance

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
A year ago I moved back to England. I had to leave my girlfriend of 3 years behind. I know she wanted to get married but at the time I wasn't ready. After being apart for a short while I realised I did want to marry her. She is coming to visit this week. A while ago she deiceded that we should not be exclusive. And I found out 3 days ago she has been seeing someone else, although she says it's not serious. This really upset me as we have been growing further apart the entire time and now I fear it may be too late to save the relationship. I am really upset and angry at the way things are shaping up. I would like use this visit of hers to try and save our relationship. I have made a bad start though...I had a fight with her today and she hasn't even arrived yet.

Any advice?

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Does she know that you are now considering marriage?

If so, then she is giving you a strong message that she's not interested.

If not, and if you still feel the same way about her it's time to let her know. Take advantage of her visit to let her know how you feel and find out how she feels. Don't put this off until the end of her visit. Wait about a day for her to become acclimatized and then have a long talk with her to see what you both want for a relationship.

Hope things turn out well for you ! George

-- from George
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