She is doing this cause she dosent want to hurt

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Ive been been dating this girl for like 10 months and we where in love at least i think so.We broke up and she started going wit some other dude and she is allways talking about him when im right there and shes laughing and acting all happy in my face like i dont even exist but when shes at home on the weekends once in a while she calls me telling me she really needs to talk to me. But i havnt talked to her for a month now and im still in love with her and this is hurting me but i dont want to give up the progess i made over this past month and are supposedly one year anniversary is coming up ,and i no on that day im going to hurt if im not with her and i dont no what to do Advice
I am sorry you are in this situation.

Why not have a direct, open, and honest talk with her and explain that you will be hurt if you can't spend your anniversary day together. Suggest something nice to do like going out to dinner and a movie.

If she says she can't because she has a boyfriend, tell her you will go as "just friends." The important thing is to get her to go out with you on that special day.

I hope things work out your way! George

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