Can this be worked through or not?

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
We have been together for four years and we are madly in love with each other and we have been through alot together. There are some things in my past that he has had a real problem with, but we have tried to move on and work through it. Recently, some intimate details came up about my past and he thinks that this is it and that there is no way to get past this. He doesn't want the relationship to end, but he doesn't know how he can accept this and get these images out of his head. Is this possible and how? Side note: we are talking about something that happened ten years ago. Advice
It's unfortunate when people cannot "forgive and forget" things from the past.

You were a different person then and he should accept that.

My advice is for both of you to go to a professional counselor who may be able to work through this problem together with you.

Good luck! George

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