Want to be closer to my crush

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have another problem tough. I haven't thought about what to say to my "very special friend" He is 44 Yrs old and a sweetie. He first came out and said he was thinking of me a year ago then we started to hug, then he was affectionate towards me. Weeks went by, He gave me a kiss for Valentines Day last year(I told him I loved him for the first time then), Days later he was affectionate towards my roomate( I was hurt and angry). Then it was on and off with this jealousy between us. Then things got serious he kept kissing on the cheek and giving me hugs. June of this past summer he injured his leg so he couldn't bowl with us or play baseball which our league runs. Then in July Or August our league had a summer picnic he hugged me and kissed me on the cheek. The rest of the summer when we saw each other I kissed him on the cheek. I actually kissed him on the cheek in front of my roomate in October of last year. Before Halloween of last year he gave me a peck kiss on the neck( Which was one of two suprises from him the first is when he said he was thinking about me). At Christmastime I recieved a flower with chocolate on the bottom of it(the chocolate looked like a flower pot) with a card and a dollar( I was suprised). We didn't see much of each other during that time( I saw more of my crush than him because I am on the same Special Olympics team with my crush and we were competing in swimming). Then my "very special friend" and I saw each other again, he said that he was my roomates' boyfriend which my roomate told me and it hurt alot coming from her. Then I made him an anniversary card with what I felt about him(Which I love him still). I told him I wish he was more than friends( I still do). Today we celebrated Valentines Day he gave me A coffee mug with a Valentines print and some candy filled inside. So I still want to be closer to my crush but how can I tell my very special friend.

RomanceClass.com Advice
If I understand this right, you have a crush on one guy but you also love a 44 yrs old guy who is dating your room-mate.

You want to know how to tell the 44 year old guy that you have a crush on this other fellow.

Seems the 44 year old guy has already told you that he is dating your room-mate so why can't you tell him that you have a crush on another guy?

By the way, your email address is not working (your address is bouncing). And, your questions still come in multiple times for the same question.

Good luck! George

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