Ex has a girlfriend

Do you have some advice for this person?

Visitor's Question:
I need advice on a past relationship. I went out with a guy three years ago for about 2 weeks, but we had been friends already for 4 years before that. After we went out, i broke up with him because he was really immature. That was three years ago and for the past three years we have been "friends with benefits" and dating on and off! But now over the summer, he got a girlfriend and i got a boyfriend. Then school started and the attraction was back, so we began to mess around again. I felt so guilty about cheating on my boyfriend, that I broke up with him. Well we still continue to mess around, but he has a girlfriend, and he says he feels bad, but still likes me. He said he will always love me, but wants a real relationship, not a friends with benefits relationship. Also he said he loved his new girlfriend, but if he truly loved her, would he tell me he loved me and do nice things for me like get me flowers and hang out with me more than he does with his girlfriend?? I'm so confused i don't know what to do!!!
Pleaase help!! Thank You

Our Suggestion:
You are confused because your ex is very confused. He needs to make up his mind-- either you or her. Make yourself very clear to him that you do not want to be part of a cheating relationship. You said he was immature before... sounds to me that he hasn't changed much.

I am sorry you are in this situation and hope things turn out your way.

Best wishes,
George

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