does she like me and if yes how do i proceed ?

Do you have some advice for this person?

Visitor's Question:
hi i've fallen in love (fancey or what ever you call it) with some one however i don't know if she like's me

i am good friends with her and i have bad esteam so i feel like i can't just out right ask her she flirts with me some times. but i think she might like some one else a bit more because she is round him more and flirting with him.

however she always comes to me when she is upset about him
she also one of these types that flirts a small bit with everyone so im just confused

you probley can't answer this but can you under stand what she is doing? (or am i just barking up the wrong tree)

and if you think she might like me can you give me some times for me to ask her as if it goes wrong i don't want to lose freind ship?

Our Suggestion:
Don't get too involved in trying to find out if she likes you... she probably does a little bit.

Ask her to go to the movies or hang out. She will probably say yes because it isn't upsetting to do that while talking about liking/loving/fancying can be scary.

Once you go out with her then you can talk about feelings.

And don't use the esteem excuse. Most kids lack self esteem and you just have to build it up like you would excercise a muscle until it gets strong.

Good luck! George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com