What do I do

Do you have some advice for this person?

Visitor's Question:
I'm a 17 year old girl whom has been dating my current boyfriend for over a year now. He and I were getting along so wonderful at first, but now its just him picking a fight and expecting me not to say anything back.He cheated on me a few months ago and told so many lies to me and the girl. Me and the girl he cheated on me with , we are friends now.He kept telling her not to talk to me and me not to talk to her. He was caught up in all the lies . I stuck with him, because I love him, but why does he not see what he has in front of him and why does he want to continue damaging what realtionship we have left?

Our Suggestion:
Some people are very poor at interpersonal skills. Your boyfriend is on of them. You relationship is built on lies and that is one of the worst thing between a couple.

It is doubtful he will change without some counseling, but he will probably be adverse to the idea.

My advice is to dump him like a hot potato. He will not likely change into a nice person. Sorry.

Good luck! George

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