He's always checking online sites

Do you have some advice for this person?

Visitor's Question:
First off, Im a gay man. Me and my boyfriend have lived together for 2 1/2 yrs. He has cheated on me 3 times that I know of. Hes always checking out online sites ( sex sites to meet people),he says hes only chatting. Should I be worried that hes going to cheat again,and when someone goes to these sites is it a form of cheating ? Please help I love him very much but it makes me so angry that he does this while Im sleeping or at work.

Our Suggestion:
Yes, you should be worried that he is going to cheat again since he has already done so at least three times in only 2 1/2 years. And, he is going online looking for more action.

Have a gentle talk with him and let him know how it angers and hurts you to be put into the position that you are. If he cares about you, he will try to modify his behavior.

Good luck! George

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